Personality Stuff

He should...

• Value communication and recognize its importance in sustaining any type of relationship. He should be willing to discuss even negative emotions/situations, however uncomfortable that may be.
• Be honest, open, and not deceptive.
• Come from a similar background/upbringing as me (e.g. family values, hometown characteristics, etc.).
• Be very intelligent, as well as educated.
• Be patient with me in my weaknesses and willing to help me become more Christ-like.
• Be encouraging. He should be excited to help me achieve goals that I have set for myself. He should be quick to praise me when I do well and be constructive and gentle with his criticism.
• Be funny/silly. He should be able to make me laugh and willing to laugh at himself.
• Be adventurous.
• Appreciate my quirkiness.
• Not be prone to skepticism/suspicion.
• Be wise with money, but not to an extreme (i.e. frugal, not cheap).
• Not be extremely introverted or extroverted, but rather somewhere in the middle.
• Be optimistic. He should assume the best about people rather than the worst.
• Be organized and enjoy planning.
• Also be spontaneous at times.
• Treasure traditions.
• Value eating healthy and exercising.
• Want to live... in a small city, somewhere with four seasons, where it snows and doesn’t get too hot, not too far from or too close to family, within driving distance to some mountains.